THE TRANSITION!!

A transition is a change from one position, state, stage, subject, concept, etc., to another. It happens in everyday life. Infact it happens all the time. There is a transition between time now and time a second later. But what defines the transition is what you are doing in the phase before the transition and what you will do in the phase after the transition. Sometimes the transition is smooth. Sometimes its messy. One might want to stay in the pre transition phase or in the post transition phase. But the most difficult is when you try to stay in the transition itself. Its impossible to do so. Eventually you have to move on. Go to the next phase. Finally you have to complete the transition. Here is what happened when i tried to stay in the transition and refused to move on to the next phase...

I work in New Delhi. My life here is more or less defined with the time spent in my office. For me its the opposite. I have a nine hour shift at home. The rest of the time i am in office. I was in this routine which i just could not seem to break out of. Then the day came that i was to go to Bangalore for some personal work. Even that day i followed the same routine. Only i left early in the evening and managed to catch my flight just in time. The flight was at 10 pm. I landed in Bangalore at 1.30 am the following morning. It was some connecting flight that took me around half of India. I walked out of the airport and the minute i stepped on the Bangalore roads i was in my transition. My body seemed to go with the flow. But my mind was shooting back and forth. Life in Bangalore as it used to be and Life in Delhi as it was suddenly confused the HELL out of me. Going with the flow seemed the right thing to do. Not like i had much of a choice. This letting go of myself seemed quite unlike something that i would do. I was suddenly unsure of my moves. And being unsure in a city like Bangalore where i have spent 20 plus years of my life didn't make me feel any better.

The next morning was the weirdest. I didn't wake up to my morning alarm on my mobile which was quite scary. Because i woke up with a start thinking i'd slept in and was late to work. Just then my mom walked in with two glasses of hot drinking water with honey and lemon. And i was not surprised that had happened. I drank up the two glasses like it was something i did normally. Only that used to happen when i was in Bangalore. In Delhi the only thing that went into my mouth before i reached office was my tooth paste. My mind was thinking again. Then i got out of bed. Finished the routines of the morning which by far are the same no matter which city you are in. As i was getting dressed the corner of my eye caught the blinking of a small green light. I turned and saw it was a COMPUTER. My computer. I quickly jumped onto it. My mind had scrolled back to the time i used to work through it. It had entered the MY PICTURES folder even before i had turned the computer on. I put it on. I checked if there was net connectivity. There was. So i decided to send all the pictures and files that i wanted from this computer to my mail account. So that i could access them from Delhi. I had some many songs which i decided to burn. In all my excitement and my endless list of what i wanted to do i hadn't noticed that i had logged into my company mail account. And was suddenly shocked to see that instead of doing all that i said i would i was accessing and replying to work mails. Damn the TRANSITION!!

Over my next few days slowly but surely i stepped out of the transition and stepped into the new phase. My life in Bangalore. It was not easy or sudden. It happened after me constantly checking my company mail account from various internet parlours. Or from my friends laptops when i met them. But it happened. And i began enjoying my stay without having to think or feel weird about anything. And before i knew it i was thoroughly enjoying my time in Bangalore. Until the day came that i had to leave. Yes Ladies and Gentlemen... We come to the next TRANSITION.

The sunday i was leaving began wrongly. I had hardly slept but was wide awake. I had to meet some more people before i left but i forgot to call them. Instead i just spent time at home. Doing what i still am trying to figure out. Then i packed and left. Usually i would have someone who would come with me to the airport. But somehow no one was there on that sunday. So i walked up to the end of the road to catch a rickshaw. My mind was beginning to think weird things again. I was in Bangalore where me going alone to the airport would just not happen. But in Delhi this was the only way it happened. Confusion began. Mind and body went into this uncoordinated sort of dance. Then at the airport i took my boarding pass only to find out that my flight was delayed. In Delhi, if this happened then i would walk into the book store and pick something to read. But then again i was in Bangalore. Something stopped me from doing so. Suddenly Forl messaged saying that she was coming to the airport to see me. She came and we killed time talking absolute rubbish sitting on the foot path in the parking lot of the airport. Very Bangalore i must say for me. But then again i was on my way to Delhi. AHHHHHHHH!!

Then Forl left and i boarded my flight. I tried sleeping on the flight. Managed quite well. But when i woke up i was in a bad mood. I dunno why. As we landed the pilot announced that the temperature outside was 39 degrees. 39 DEGREES at 10.30 in the night?? I had forgotten the Delhi summer had begun. The last 10 days i had lived in the temperature controlled comfort of Bangalore. I walked out of the flight with a mournful mood. The chaos began. In Bangalore for one to take his luggage and get out of the airport would be a 15 minute process. It seemed like i was in a bigger city for the first time and was shocked to see the crowds. It took me half an hour just to get hold of my bags much after i decided to fight the crowd and reach the conveyor belt which brought in the luggage. Then i walked out of the airport only to walk straight back in. In Bangalore i would walk out and someone would be there to pick me up. In Delhi there was no one and i had to take a pre paid taxi home. I did so. My mind yet again was confused. I had to meet a friend for dinner. Went straight to where she was. Dropped the luggage and went to a small Goan restaurant and had a nice friendly dinner. Good food. Good company. No Jazz. Very Bangalore. But i was in Delhi. Oh man...

I reached home and rang the bell. Only to realise that my mom wouldn't open the door. I was in Delhi. I lived alone. I opened the door and walked in. Then i changed. Dumped my bags in the room. Jumped on to my bed and put the TV on. I fell asleep in the heat with the TV blaring and the fan adding on like an irritating mosquito.

The next morning i woke up with a start. I had slept in...

Dancer, painter, singer... Artist!! Photographer??

Is photography a form of art?? Can it be used as a tool to display ones artistic talents??

I used to believe otherwise. For me photography was all about knowing the features in your digital camera. Once that was done u were ready to join NAT GEO as their official photographer. Not so obvious as it is... Over my last year in Delhi i have seen some work of photography which totally chagned my point of view. I have realised now, what a painter does with a pallette and colours, a photographer does with lights and lenses... Photography as a form of Art is absolutely true. And to show you that it is evolving with each passing day i have to present to you a photography exhibition of 9 such photographers who not only believe in the art of photography but also execute it to perfection...

The exhibition is called 'VISION BEYOND'.

Exhibition opens
9th April '07 to 17th April '07
Gallery
Shridharani Gallery
Triveni Kala sangam
205, Tansen Marg
New Delhi

Exhibition continues
18th April '07 to 25th April '07
Gallery
Art Indus Gallery
37, Santushti Shopping Arcade
Chanakyapuri
New Delhi

The photographers whose work is being displayed are :

• Dinesh Khanna
• Malkiat Singh
• Nakshatar Lathar
• Naresh Singh
• Parthiv Shah
• Pradeep Dasgupta
• Saadiya Kochar
• Sandeep Biswas
• Shalini Saran

Sad but true!!

Lunatic or Victim... Retarded or shocked beyond belief... Unknown friend or known enemy...

I know what i have written above does not make any sense as such. But something happened last night. And i am DISGUSTED with our society. Or atleast that part of it which was sitting in Coffee Day, Saket Complex on the night of 31st of March, 2007 at around 11 pm. I was there too. I put myself in this HEARTLESS bunch who were there and did nothing. Doing nothing in retrospect seems ok. But this bunch laughed and mocked this lady who did something that caught everyone there by surprise. This post is to tell you about that lady and our 'so called' developing society.

I wrapped up my work like everyday and locked the office. I am the last one out each night. On my way home my regular stop over is the Saket complex. It just helps in reassuring me that i still have a life. Like everyday i parked my bike. Spoke to the parking attendants. Checked if the Bhel Puri waala was doing well. Then i walked into Coffee Day. It was buzzing with people of all ages. There was one little boy running around trying to find something interesting to do. A family of four were sharing light moments which were so loud that the music playing in the cafe semed like a mere background score to their theatrical performance. One long haired college kid was sitting on the table next to mine. We were both facing the main enterance to the cafe.

Before i get into what happened, let me tell you that below this cafe there is a book shop called Teksons. The enterance to it is through the cafe. And its shut whenever i have seen it as it shuts by 7 pm. There is a staircase leading down to the it. A set of steps which look like they are leading to nothing as its usually dark.

I ordered my usual. Irish coffee. Coffee Day has a new glass in which they serve this coffee. Its quite cool. My first sip was the only one i remember. The rest of the coffee disappeared somewhere between what happened next and my thoughts.

One lady dressed quite decently opened the cafe door. She was wearing a black formal outift with a jacket. No one seemed to notice, but this lady stood there for quite sometime. Then finally when she spoke a few heads turned. She screamed right from where she was, asking if the book shop down there was open. One of the waiters walked upto her saying that it was already shut. She wanted to know for sure and didn't seem to believe him. So she asked for the manager. He walked up to her. By now this woman in black had the attention of most of the people sitting there. She definitely had mine. She told the manager that the book shop was not shut. She told him that his cafe was open and anyone could walk down to the book shop and steal the books. The manager tried talking to her. But there was something else that was driving this woman. She seemed unstoppable. She suddenly began talking of how young boys and girls go down there after the book shop is shut and get aids. She asked the manager to show the Chocolate doughnut that they served. She said even their doughnut was spreading aids. And then she began doing these gestures with her hand that showed that she was disghusted with something so bad that it would not come off even if she washed herself a million times. A lady sitting right near the door suddenly interrupted. I think she did that because she realised that the manager was helpless in trying to calm the woman in black. This interruption seemed to intensify her all the more. She turned to the lady and told her even she would get aids if she was in this cafe. She seemed to get more and more violent and aggressive. The manager and the waiter tried their best in tyring to calm her. But it just would not happen. Suddenly... she stopped speaking. The manager had caught her hand. He tried to gently move her out of the cafe. She looked at the manager and then at all the people who were sitting in the cafe. She was asking for something. Yet it seemed like she was trying to tell us something. Her eyes locked with mine for a brief second. Then she broke off her hand from the manager's grip and began saying that he cannot treat her that way. That this was India. And that women were treated with respect here. Then she turned around and left. The manager shut the door. No one moved. Something had hit them so fast they didn't have the time to react. Suddenly the long haired boy sitting on the table next to mine started laughing. And before you know it the family of four, the waiters and the lady near the door joined in. And then out of nowhere there were these comments thrown in to the air making fun of the woman in black, laughing at her, ridiculing her. The boy even mentioned that he would have slapped her if he was in the managers place.

I felt out of place.

Somehow i was still dumbstruck. Too many things had happened and my mind was spinning at the speed of light. I wanted to know where the woman had gone. In that short time that she was standing at the door i was also sure that she was safe. But now that she had walked away i was concerned. I felt responsible for not having done anything to ensure that she was given the necessary treatment. I had not stood up and asked the people around me to shut up. I had not done ANYTHING. I just remained there sipping my coffee. I had watched the incident like it was a scene out of a movie. I knew i would be back home from here and then to office the next day and then back here once again. Nothing would change in my life.

But this incident does not seem to leave me. I want to know what happened to her?? I want to know what had happened that brought her to the state that she was in?? I want to know. But i don't want to do what it takes to know. I want... I want... I want... Is that all i can say?? Isn't there anything that i will ever do to know... But as always, in the present, one always feels that the past can be corrected if repeated. This is how our society is. No one wants to do something in the present. People like to react in two situations. One is if you give them a situation from the past, they will willingly correct it. (Or so they say). The other is the future. People like to react in the future. No one wants to stand up in the present. No one wants to lose out on the present.